bpf, sockmap: fix deadlocks in the sockhash and sockmap

When huang uses sched_switch tracepoint, the tracepoint
does only one thing in the mounted ebpf program, which
deletes the fixed elements in sockhash ([0])

It seems that elements in sockhash are rarely actively
deleted by users or ebpf program. Therefore, we do not
pay much attention to their deletion. Compared with hash
maps, sockhash only provides spin_lock_bh protection.
This causes it to appear to have self-locking behavior
in the interrupt context.

  [0]:https://lore.kernel.org/all/CABcoxUayum5oOqFMMqAeWuS8+EzojquSOSyDA3J_2omY=2EeAg@mail.gmail.com/

Reported-by: Hsin-Wei Hung <hsinweih@uci.edu>
Fixes: 604326b4

 ("bpf, sockmap: convert to generic sk_msg interface")
Signed-off-by: Xin Liu <liuxin350@huawei.com>
Acked-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230406122622.109978-1-liuxin350@huawei.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>