ovl: negate the ofs->share_whiteout boolean

The default common case is that whiteout sharing is enabled.
Change to storing the negated no_shared_whiteout state, so we will not
need to initialize it.

This is the first step towards removing all config and feature
initializations out of ovl_fill_super().

Signed-off-by: Amir Goldstein <amir73il@gmail.com>