RDS/IB: Do not wait for send ring to be empty on conn shutdown

Now that we are signaling send completions much less, we are likely
to have dirty entries in the send queue when the connection is
shut down (on rmmod, for example.) These are cleaned up a little
further down in conn_shutdown, but if we wait on the ring_empty_wait
for them, it'll never happen, and we hand on unload.

Signed-off-by: Andy Grover <andy.grover@oracle.com>