ethtool: set device channel counts with CHANNELS_SET request

Implement CHANNELS_SET netlink request to set channel counts of a network
device. These are traditionally set with ETHTOOL_SCHANNELS ioctl request.

Like the ioctl implementation, the generic ethtool code checks if supplied
values do not exceed driver defined limits; if they do, first offending
attribute is reported using extack. Checks preventing removing channels
used for RX indirection table or zerocopy AF_XDP socket are also
implemented.

Move ethtool_get_max_rxfh_channel() helper into common.c so that it can be
used by both ioctl and netlink code.

v2:
  - fix netdev reference leak in error path (found by Jakub Kicinsky)

Signed-off-by: Michal Kubecek <mkubecek@suse.cz>
Reviewed-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>