nvme: add new reconnecting controller state

The nvme fabric (RDMA, FC, etc...) can introduce port, link or node
failures that may require a reconnect to re-establish the connection.

Add a new reconnecting state that will initially be used by the RDMA
driver.

Reviewed-by: Jay Freyensee <james.p.freyensee@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Tested-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>