rhashtable: involve rhashtable_lookup_insert routine

Involve a new function called rhashtable_lookup_insert() which makes
lookup and insertion atomic under bucket lock protection, helping us
avoid to introduce an extra lock when we search and insert an object
into hash table.

Signed-off-by: Ying Xue <ying.xue@windriver.com>
Signed-off-by: Thomas Graf <tgraf@suug.ch>
Acked-by: Thomas Graf <tgraf@suug.ch>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>