btrfs: new inline ref storing owning subvol of data extents

In order to implement simple quota groups, we need to be able to
associate a data extent with the subvolume that created it. Once you
account for reflink, this information cannot be recovered without
explicitly storing it. Options for storing it are:

- a new key/item
- a new extent inline ref item

The former is backwards compatible, but wastes space, the latter is
incompat, but is efficient in space and reuses the existing inline ref
machinery, while only abusing it a tiny amount -- specifically, the new
item is not a ref, per-se.

Signed-off-by: Boris Burkov <boris@bur.io>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>