libbpf: add common min/max macro to libbpf_internal.h

Multiple files in libbpf redefine their own definitions for min/max.
Let's define them in libbpf_internal.h and use those everywhere.

Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andriin@fb.com>
Acked-by: Song Liu <songliubraving@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>