drm/dp_mst: Remove PDT teardown in drm_dp_destroy_port() and refactor

This will allow us to add some locking for port->* members, in
particular the PDT and ->connector, which can't be done from
drm_dp_destroy_port() since we don't know what locks the caller might be
holding.

Note that we already do this in delayed_destroy_work (renamed from
destroy_connector_work in this patch) for ports, we're just making it so
mstbs are also destroyed in this worker.

Changes since v2:
* Clarify commit message
Changes since v4:
* Clarify commit message more

Cc: Juston Li <juston.li@intel.com>
Cc: Imre Deak <imre.deak@intel.com>
Cc: Ville Syrjälä <ville.syrjala@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Harry Wentland <hwentlan@amd.com>
Cc: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Reviewed-by: Sean Paul <sean@poorly.run>
Signed-off-by: Lyude Paul <lyude@redhat.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20191022023641.8026-3-lyude@redhat.com