io_uring: add IOSQE_ASYNC

io_uring defaults to always doing inline submissions, if at all
possible. But for larger copies, even if the data is fully cached, that
can take a long time. Add an IOSQE_ASYNC flag that the application can
set on the SQE - if set, it'll ensure that we always go async for those
kinds of requests. Use the io-wq IO_WQ_WORK_CONCURRENT flag to ensure we
get the concurrency we desire for this case.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>