drbd: when receive times out on meta socket, also check last receive time on data socket

If we have an asymetrically congested network, we may send P_PING,
but due to congestion, the corresponding P_PING_ACK would time out,
and we would drop a (congested, but otherwise) healthy connection
("PingAck did not arrive in time.")

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>