net/smc: delete an asymmetric link as SMC server

When a link group moved from asymmetric to symmetric state then the
dangling asymmetric link can be deleted. Add smc_llc_find_asym_link() to
find the respective link and add smc_llc_delete_asym_link() to delete
it.

Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>