net, neigh: Use NLA_POLICY_MASK helper for NDA_FLAGS_EXT attribute

Instead of open-coding a check for invalid bits in NTF_EXT_MASK, we can just
use the NLA_POLICY_MASK() helper instead, and simplify NDA_FLAGS_EXT sanity
check this way.

Suggested-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>