nvmet: add AEN configuration support

AEN configuration via the 'Get Features' and 'Set Features' admin
command is mandatory, so we should be implemeting handling for it.

Signed-off-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
[hch: use WRITE_ONCE, check for invalid values]
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Daniel Verkamp <daniel.verkamp@intel.com>