Btrfs: fix unsafe usage of merge_state

merge_state can free the current state if it can be merged with the next node,
but in set_extent_bit(), after merge_state, we still use the current extent to
get the next node and cache it into cached_state

Signed-off-by: Xiao Guangrong <xiaoguangrong@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <chris.mason@oracle.com>