cxl/mbox: Introduce the mbox_send operation

In preparation for implementing a unit test backend transport for ioctl
operations, and making the mailbox available to the cxl/pmem
infrastructure, move the existing PCI specific portion of mailbox handling
to an "mbox_send" operation.

With this split all the PCI-specific transport details are comprehended
by a single operation and the rest of the mailbox infrastructure is
'struct cxl_mem' and 'struct cxl_memdev' generic.

Acked-by: Ben Widawsky <ben.widawsky@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Ben Widawsky <ben.widawsky@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/163116434098.2460985.9004760022659400540.stgit@dwillia2-desk3.amr.corp.intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>