bpftool: Switch bpf_object__load_xattr() to bpf_object__load()

Switch all the uses of to-be-deprecated bpf_object__load_xattr() into
a simple bpf_object__load() calls with optional log_level passed through
open_opts.kernel_log_level, if -d option is specified.

Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20211209193840.1248570-13-andrii@kernel.org