xfrm: Use the XFRM_GRO to indicate a GRO call on input

This is needed to support GRO for ESP in UDP encapsulation.

Signed-off-by: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>
Co-developed-by: Antony Antony <antony.antony@secunet.com>
Signed-off-by: Antony Antony <antony.antony@secunet.com>
Reviewed-by: Eyal Birger <eyal.birger@gmail.com>