RDMA: Add netlink infrastructure

Add basic RDMA netlink infrastructure that allows for registration of
RDMA clients for which data is to be exported and supplies message
construction callbacks.

Signed-off-by: Nir Muchtar <nirm@voltaire.com>

[ Reorganize a few things, add CONFIG_NET dependency.  - Roland ]

Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>