ice: Adjust DCB INIT for SW mode

Adjust ice_init_dcb to set the is_sw_lldp boolean
in the case where the FW has been detected to be
in an untenable state such that the driver
should forcibly make sure it is off.

This will ensure that the FW is in a known state.

Signed-off-by: Dave Ertman <david.m.ertman@intel.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>