tcp: diag: add support for TIME_WAIT sockets to tcp_abort()

Currently, "ss -K -ta ..." does not support TIME_WAIT sockets.

Issue has been raised at least two times in the past [1] [2]
it is time to fix it.

[1] https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/ba65f579-4e69-ae0d-4770-bc6234beb428@gmail.com/
[2] https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/CANn89i+R9RgmD=AQ4vX1Vb_SQAj4c3fi7-ZtQz-inYY4Sq4CMQ@mail.gmail.com/T/



While we are at it, use inet_sk_state_load() while tcp_abort()
does not hold a lock on the socket.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Tested-by: Muhammad Usama Anjum <usama.anjum@collabora.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220627121038.226500-1-edumazet@google.com


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>