wifi: mac80211: mlme: fix disassoc with MLO

In MLO we shouldn't call ieee80211_bss_info_change_notify(),
call that only (for backward compatibility) without MLO, and
otherwise ieee80211_vif_cfg_change_notify().

Similarly, ieee80211_reset_erp_info() only applies to the
current link, and in MLO we assume the driver doesn't really
need that.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Berg <johannes.berg@intel.com>