mailbox: sprd: Introduce refcnt when clients requests/free channels

Unisoc mailbox has no way to be enabled/disabled for any single channel.
They can only be set to startup or shutdown as a whole device at same time.

Add a variable to count references to avoid mailbox FIFO being reset
unexpectedly when clients are requesting or freeing channels.

Also add a lock to dismiss possible conflicts from register r/w in
different startup or shutdown threads. And fix the crash problem when early
interrupts come from channel which has not been requested by client yet.

Fixes: ca27fc26 ("mailbox: sprd: Add Spreadtrum mailbox driver")
Signed-off-by: Orson Zhai <orson.zhai@unisoc.com>
Reviewed-by: Baolin Wang <baolin.wang7@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jassi Brar <jaswinder.singh@linaro.org>