ptp_ocp: add force_irq to xilinx_spi configuration

Flashing firmware via devlink flash was failing on PTP OCP devices
because it is using Quad SPI mode, but the driver was not properly
behaving. With force_irq flag landed it now can be fixed.

Signed-off-by: Vadim Fedorenko <vadfed@meta.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230309105421.2953451-1-vadfed@meta.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>