tls: replace poll implementation with read hook

Instead of re-implementing poll routine use the poll callback to
trigger read from kTLS, we reuse the stream_memory_read callback
which is simpler and achieves the same. This helps to align sockmap
and kTLS so we can more easily embed BPF in kTLS.

Joint work with Daniel.

Signed-off-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>