net: sched: extend action ops with put_dev callback

As a preparation for removing dependency on rtnl lock from rules update
path, all users of shared objects must take reference while working with
them.

Extend action ops with put_dev() API to be used on net device returned by
get_dev().

Modify mirred action (only action that implements get_dev callback):
- Take reference to net device in get_dev.
- Implement put_dev API that releases reference to net device.

Signed-off-by: Vlad Buslov <vladbu@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>