md: add 'size' as a personality method

In preparation for giving userspace control over ->array_sectors we need
to be able to retrieve the 'default' size, and the 'anticipated' size
when a reshape is requested.  For personalities that do not reshape emit
a warning if anything but the default size is requested.

In the raid5 case we need to update ->previous_raid_disks to make the
new 'default' size available.

Reviewed-by: Andre Noll <maan@systemlinux.org>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>