RDMA/mlx5: Use a dedicated mkey xarray for ODP

There is a per device xarray storing mkeys that is used to store every
mkey in the system. However, this xarray is now only read by ODP for
certain ODP designated MRs (ODP, implicit ODP, MW, DEVX_INDIRECT).

Create an xarray only for use by ODP, that only contains ODP related
MKeys. This xarray is protected by SRCU and all erases are protected by a
synchronize.

This improves performance:

 - All MRs in the odp_mkeys xarray are ODP MRs, so some tests for is_odp()
   can be deleted. The xarray will also consume fewer nodes.

 - normal MR's are never mixed with ODP MRs in a SRCU data structure so
   performance sucking synchronize_srcu() on every MR destruction is not
   needed.

 - No smp_load_acquire(live) and xa_load() double barrier on read

Due to the SRCU locking scheme care must be taken with the placement of
the xa_store(). Once it completes the MR is immediately visible to other
threads and only through a xa_erase() & synchronize_srcu() cycle could it
be destroyed.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20191009160934.3143-4-jgg@ziepe.ca


Reviewed-by: Artemy Kovalyov <artemyko@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>