ip, udp: Support MSG_SPLICE_PAGES

Make IP/UDP sendmsg() support MSG_SPLICE_PAGES.  This causes pages to be
spliced from the source iterator.

This allows ->sendpage() to be replaced by something that can handle
multiple multipage folios in a single transaction.

Signed-off-by: David Howells <dhowells@redhat.com>
cc: Willem de Bruijn <willemdebruijn.kernel@gmail.com>
cc: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
cc: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
cc: Matthew Wilcox <willy@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>