net: phy: add __set_linkmode_max_speed

We will need the functionality of __set_linkmode_max_speed also for
linkmode bitmaps other than phydev->supported. Therefore split it.

v2:
- remove unused parameter from __set_linkmode_max_speed

Signed-off-by: Heiner Kallweit <hkallweit1@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Andrew Lunn <andrew@lunn.ch>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>