ublk_drv: define macros for recovery feature and check them

Define some macros for recovery feature.

UBLK_S_DEV_QUIESCED implies that ublk_device is quiesced
and is ready for recovery. This state can be observed by userspace.

UBLK_F_USER_RECOVERY implies that:
(1) ublk_drv enables recovery feature. It won't let monitor_work to
    automatically abort rqs and release the device.
(2) With a dying ubq_daemon, ublk_drv ends(aborts) rqs issued to
    userspace(ublksrv) before crash.
(3) With a dying ubq_daemon, in task work and ublk_queue_rq(),
    ublk_drv requeues rqs.

Signed-off-by: ZiyangZhang <ZiyangZhang@linux.alibaba.com>
Reviewed-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220923153919.44078-3-ZiyangZhang@linux.alibaba.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>