decnet: Do not use RTA_PUT() macros

Also, no need to trim on nlmsg_put() failure, nothing has been added
yet.  We also want to use nlmsg_end(), nlmsg_new() and nlmsg_free().

Signed-off-by: Thomas Graf <tgraf@suug.ch>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>