RDMA/hns: Add UD support for HIP09

HIP09 supports service type of Unreliable Datagram, add necessary process
to enable this feature.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1605526408-6936-7-git-send-email-liweihang@huawei.com


Signed-off-by: Weihang Li <liweihang@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>