mptcp: move from sha1 (v0) to sha256 (v1)

For simplicity's sake use directly sha256 primitives (and pull them
as a required build dep).
Add optional, boot-time self-tests for the hmac function.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Paasch <cpaasch@apple.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>