ixgbe: improve mac filter handling

Add mac_table API based on work done for igb, which includes functions
to add and delete mac filters. This simplifies code for various entities
that use MAC filters such as VMDQ, SR-IOV, MACVLAN, and such.

Reported-by: Mitch Williams <mitch.a.williams@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Tested-by: Phil Schmitt <phillip.j.schmitt@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>