xfs: use vfs inode nlink field everywhere

The VFS tracks the inode nlink just like the xfs_icdinode. We can
remove the variable from the icdinode and use the VFS inode variable
everywhere, reducing the size of the xfs_icdinode by a further 4
bytes.

Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Dave Chinner <david@fromorbit.com>