libceph: protect ceph_con_open() with mutex

Take the con mutex while we are initiating a ceph open.  This is necessary
because the may have previously been in use and then closed, which could
result in a racing workqueue running con_work().

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Yehuda Sadeh <yehuda@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>