nfs: don't use nd->intent.open.flags

Instead check LOOKUP_EXCL in nd->flags, which is basically what the open intent
flags were used for.

Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@suse.cz>
CC: Trond Myklebust <Trond.Myklebust@netapp.com>
Signed-off-by: Al Viro <viro@zeniv.linux.org.uk>