nfsd: Ensure struct nfs4_client is unhashed before we try to destroy it

When we remove the client_mutex protection, we will need to ensure
that it can't be found by other threads while we're destroying it.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@redhat.com>