Btrfs: make defragment work with nodatacow option

Btrfs defragment will utilize COW feature, which means this
did not work for nodatacow option, this problem was detected
by xfstests generic/018 with nodatacow mount option.

Fix this problem by forcing cow for a extent with state
@EXTETN_DEFRAG setting.

Signed-off-by: Wang Shilong <wangsl.fnst@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Miao Xie <miaox@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <clm@fb.com>