libbpf: Allows disabling auto attach

Adds libbpf APIs for disabling auto-attach for individual functions.
This is motivated by the use case of cgroup iter [1]. Some iter
types require their parameters to be non-zero, therefore applying
auto-attach on them will fail. With these two new APIs, users who
want to use auto-attach and these types of iters can disable
auto-attach on the program and perform manual attach.

[1] https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/CAEf4BzZ+a2uDo_t6kGBziqdz--m2gh2_EUwkGLDtMd65uwxUjA@mail.gmail.com/



Signed-off-by: Hao Luo <haoluo@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20220816234012.910255-1-haoluo@google.com