rbd: option symbol renames

Use the name "ceph_opts" consistently (rather than just "opt") for
pointers to a ceph_options structure.

Change the few spots that don't use "rbd_opts" for a rbd_options
pointer to match the rest.

Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Josh Durgin <josh.durgin@inktank.com>