blk-mq: add tagset quiesce interface

Drivers that have shared tagsets may need to quiesce potentially a lot
of request queues that all share a single tagset (e.g. nvme). Add an
interface to quiesce all the queues on a given tagset. This interface is
useful because it can speedup the quiesce by doing it in parallel.

Because some queues should not need to be quiesced (e.g. the nvme
connect_q) when quiescing the tagset, introduce a
QUEUE_FLAG_SKIP_TAGSET_QUIESCE flag to allow this new interface to
ski quiescing a particular queue.

Signed-off-by: Chao Leng <lengchao@huawei.com>
[hch: simplify for the per-tag_set srcu_struct]
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Chao Leng <lengchao@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Chaitanya Kulkarni <kch@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221101150050.3510-14-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>