RDMA/counter: Add set/clear per-port auto mode support

Add an API to support set/clear per-port auto mode.

Signed-off-by: Mark Zhang <markz@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Majd Dibbiny <majd@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>