ext4: fix forgetten xattr lock protection in ext4_expand_extra_isize

We should avoid the contention between the i_extra_isize update and
the inline data insertion, so move the xattr trylock in front of
i_extra_isize update.

Signed-off-by: Miao Xie <miaoxie@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Wang Shilong <wshilong@ddn.com>