net/smc: align the connect behaviour with TCP

Connect with O_NONBLOCK will not be completed immediately
and returns -EINPROGRESS. It is possible to use selector/poll
for completion by selecting the socket for writing. After select
indicates writability, a second connect function call will return
0 to indicate connected successfully as TCP does, but smc returns
-EISCONN. Use socket state for smc to indicate connect state, which
can help smc aligning the connect behaviour with TCP.

Signed-off-by: Guangguan Wang <guangguan.wang@linux.alibaba.com>
Acked-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>