libceph: report socket read/write error message

We need to set error_msg to something useful before calling ceph_fault();
do so here for try_{read,write}().  This is more informative than

libceph: osd0 192.168.106.220:6801 (null)

Signed-off-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Yehuda Sadeh <yehuda@inktank.com>