libbpf: Add bpf_obj_get_opts()

Add an extensible variant of bpf_obj_get() capable of setting the
`file_flags` parameter.

This parameter is needed to enable unprivileged access to BPF maps.
Without a method like this, users must manually make the syscall.

Signed-off-by: Joe Burton <jevburton@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20220729202727.3311806-1-jevburton.kernel@gmail.com