net/smc: fix structure size

The struct smc_cdc_msg must be defined as packed so the
size is 44 bytes.
And change the structure size check so sizeof is checked.

Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>