{net,IB}/mlx5: Add flow steering helpers

Add helper functions that check if a protocol is
part of a flow steering match criteria.

Signed-off-by: Boris Pismenny <borisp@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Matan Barak <matanb@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Aviad Yehezkel <aviadye@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>